I can’t believe that I found the best friend everyone should have! With me being a female you would assume that it is another female. But it is not. With in the past year I have been getting closer with one of my male friends. At first it was just me trying to become better friends with him, but slowly and without me really noticing I started to fall for this guy. At first I denied it with everything that was in me. So much so that I was chatting with him on facebook and I just kind of said it straight out that I didn’t want to hurt him or lead him on if I was that I didn’t like him in any special way. But I just couldn’t help the way I was feeling for this guy. So, another night, not long after our first discussion, I laid everything out on the table. I was so terrified that it would ruin our friendship and that he wouldn’t like me back. Well after I told him how I truly felt about him everything was still the same. We still chatted when we were both on facebook. Things weren’t awkward and he had told me that he really didn’t know how he felt, to be honest that was probably what I needed to hear. Just within the last week we have been chatting almost every night. It is has been great. We have come to the conclusion that with the circumstances that we are under, being he lives basically 3 hours away and is going to school in Grand Rapids, and I am going to school in Rochester Hills, we will probably never be in a ‘relationship’. But we know so much about each other, or at least I feel as if I have learned so much about and from him just in the past week. He is truly my BEST FRIEND! I am so thankful that after being completely honest with him that he is still my friend, and I am glad that he was honest with me about the possibility of an ‘us’. He is just the greatest guy in the world, and I am going to let my head get straight so that way I can realize that he will always be my friend, and that one day he will find his Beautiful Maiden and I will find my Knight in Shining Armour! We have this knowing of each other that if we have ‘ANYTHING’ that we want to talk about then we can. There is no awkwardness within it, unless you are chatting at 2:30 in the morning and so tired that your thoughts aren’t making any sense. Or at least you think they aren’t making sense! = )
Just remember that every person is worthy of being a friend… but, you need to find your one true friend that you can talk to. Guy or girl, it doesn’t matter. I found mine, he is wonderful!
you are the best JCB2
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this is really cool. I have a friend like this, and we are almost in te exact same situation.lol…but yea friendship is most important and as you both grow closer to christ, if a relationship is supposed to happen, then it will, no need to try and force it, what will be will be.friendship is a beautiful thing. continue to allow god’s timing and god’s will =)
This is really sweet Megan! My best friend in school was a girl. We are dating know but she is still, first of all, my friend! Dating is great but friendship is the highest level of relationship! The Bible never mentions “dating” but it says tons about friendship…because it is so important!
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